Raising your hips makes them feel deeper and lets you attain underneath you to stimulate your clit with a toy. And there isn’t any cause why you should not play into that. “Have your partner reach round and grab your boobs or pull your hair,” Encarnacion says. “This position gives you an opportunity to actually play up the kink.” The Spork is actually, actually sizzling for any type of intercourse—there’s the intimate eye contact, the intertwined legs, and the slightly twisted angle of penetration. And do not forget about kissing during this one.