If at first you don’t love anal, give it a second probability. If you’re brand new to anal play, I strongly suggest taking part in with a butt plug prior penetrative anal sex with a penis or strap-on dildo. (You can do this by your self or with a associate.) It will get you used to the sensation of being “crammed,” in addition to help relax the sphincter. I’m not letting a penis or strap-on get close to my bottom until I trust that you simply’ll wield it responsibly. It must be a “hell yes.” Like something in life, if the thought of anal sex doesn’t inspire an enthusiastic “hell yes” you probably shouldn’t do it. Doggy style, spooning, and the standard missionary position are greatest.